Dear young men...

Society has failed us.

We were led to believe that a lifestyle of instant gratification and comfort will lead to happiness and fulfilment.

But this couldn’t be further from the truth.

There’s a reason that:

• 77% of suicides are men.

• Over 6 million men suffer from depression each year.

• More men than ever feel empty and purposeless.

This is because society has encouraged us to chase the wrong things.

And as a result, many men don’t feel like they are living a life worth living.

What men ACTUALLY desire is fulfilment.

Not comfort.

Not instant pleasure.

Fulfilment.

We all want to feel like our life is meaningful right?

The only path to fulfilment is going against societal norms.

What society calls “fun” is actually self-destruction.

What society calls “boring” is actually self-improvement.

If you continue to live by what society has told you, then you will live the life that the majority of people in society live.

Do you really want that?

Just look around you…

Most men are overweight and overworked.

Underpaid and underappreciated.

This is the path that you are on.

Short term pleasure but long term destruction.

You need to change your ways before it is too late.

This shouldn’t scare you, it should motivate you to change.

• Break your bad habits

• Cut off your bad friends

• Stop constantly chasing girls and start constantly chasing your purpose.

99% of young men will live a life of regret by 25.

Work a job they hate for 40 years.

And die with no real achievements.

This quote by Benjamin Franklin sums the life of the average man up perfectly: “People die at 25 and aren't buried until 75"

Stop merely existing and drifting to an unfulfilled life and start LIVING.

This is me calling you to be in the 1% of men who live the life they want.

Build their life on discipline.

And leave a legacy.

But the truth is this…

Without God all of this is meaningless.

As it says in Matthew 16:26

“What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?”

Without a relationship with God, you will never truly be fulfilled.

There will always be a void in your heart.

So I urge each of you reading this to seek God.

Put him first.

And watch what he does in your life.

Build your lifestyle on a solid foundation

Because remember:

Success isn’t a destination; it’s a lifestyle.

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Have a great week and may God bless you all.

Eobak